GRRRRRRRRR........

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[rino351]

wow, that kind of makes me speechless
Man, I feel for ya and I'm sorry for you.
:cry:

[CNTRYCOWBOY]

Vent all you want, Girls will rip your heart and then run over it a few times. You'll find the right one someday. By the way TELL HER TO TAKE THE BUS TO SCHOOL!!! Then go work on your truck.

[mattadams]

Damn dude, that sucks I'm really sorry to hear it. Unfortunately I don't even have any good advice for you, but agree, don't let her take the truck to school... if shes moved on enough to find a new man, shes moved on enough to find a new mode of transportation.
I really feel for you though. If you feel like getting together for beers or something< i'm sure myself and others are more then willing to help you out.

[2000 xlt]

Damn bud, im sorry to hear that, makes you want to go and kick some
#@%$ @#$. I wouldn't let her take the truck, You were just trying to be the nice guy, and she took advantage of you. Let her feel the way you do, by making her figure something different out. Im sorry man.

Just my two cents.

Take care, need anything just let us know.

JOHN

[UrbanCowboy]

If you need to go get drunk with the Ford pack, I'm sure you'd get plenty of offiers. :beer:

[Heath]

I think its time that the Chevy guys saying comes true... Fixed Or Repaired Daily... Something needs to be wrong with that truck after work... And after you run out of shit that "broke" well then just tell her too god damn bad... Ask Tony for a fucking ride (all you perverts like Jeff and Matt and Chris stay away from that comment, I'm talking about in a car)... And if she balks, I'd just tell her to fucking bad... Sorry for all the f bombs and such, but I know how you feel... I'm lucky I now have the best wife I could have ever asked for... This might just be a good thing for you... I know it was for me... And those in Denver that know my wife and I closely will tell you that it was for the better... I have a woman that puts up with ALL my shit... So chin up, tell her to fuck off... You'll give her a ride when it has to do with stuff for the kid, but other than that, here a buck, catch the bus or get your new fuck buddy to take you!!!

[Tray]

Document everything. Trust me, you'll want it later. Custody battles are a biatch, and I'm sure you want your kid in your life.

As for her and the truck, hell no. If she was worth it, she'd have been faithful. Let her borrow Tony's car, or ride the Rough Tough & Dangerous.

I know you said you love her, but cut her off now. She'll never change, and it'll only hurt worse the longer things get drawn out.

[cory]

because im a little violent in matters like this i would make her take the bus

[89RangerXLT]

wow man. Thats nothing but shitty, I feel really bad, and i know how it feels when someone hurts you like that. Honestly though, your gonna have to cut her off if you ever want to get over it. Go to the clerk, and get the divorce papers ASAP. Don't let her touch your truck EVER EVER. If you keep giving in to that, she will keep using you for it. Once again Im sorry man!

[Tray]

Oh, and if it comes to it, get yourself the sleaziest lawyer you can find. If you don't, you'll always wish you had. Go for blood now, and you'll be much happier than having to settle for less, and wishing you'd done more in the beginning.

[LEANINTREE]

Document everything. Trust me, you'll want it later. Custody battles are a biatch, and I'm sure you want your kid in your life.

As for her and the truck, hell no. If she was worth it, she'd have been faithful. Let her borrow Tony's car, or ride the Rough Tough & Dangerous.

I know you said you love her, but cut her off now. She'll never change, and it'll only hurt worse the longer things get drawn out.

AGREED. AND REALIZE ONE OTHER THING ABOUT THE CUSTODY ISSUE, YOUR ATTORNEY SHOULD REQUIRE THAT PATERNITY BE ESTABLISHED AS PART OF ANY CHILD INVOLVED PROCEEDINGS. START SAVING FOR THE TESTING NOW. GIVEN WHAT YOU'VE SAID ABOUT THIS LITTLE GIRLS HABITS, YOU NEED TO BE CERTAIN THAT YOU ARE SUPPORTING YOUR OWN CHILD. SOUNDS HARSH, I KNOW, BUT ONCE YOU SAY 'SURE' AND ASSUME RESPONSIBILITY, THAT'S WHAT SHE WROTE FOR THE NEXT 25 YEARS, THE LAW WON'T LET YOU GO BACK.

I FEEL FOR YOU MAN. I'VE TRAVELED MUCH OF THE ROAD YOU'RE ABOUT TO EMBARK ON, AND I DON'T WISH IT ON ANYONE. IT'S ROUGH, BUT SOMETIMES YOU *WILL* HAVE TO BE BLOODTHIRSTY TO AVOID BEING RUN OVER. COLORADO ISN'T REAL FORGIVING TO FATHERS IN THIS SITUATION, NO MATTER HOW UPRIGHT YOU ARE. IF YOU NEED TO TALK, JUST HOLLER.

LEANINTREE

[Mind_Boggler]

Dammit man, I don't really know what to say besides been there done that, so I know what you feel. Luckily for me though, I have no children. But that doesn't change the fact that it hurts.

And to the women on RMFTC, don't hate him, lol, he's just PO'd about his situation, he doesn't really hate women. Well, maybe one or two, but not all of them.

[fordnbikes]

I'm sorry that you have to go through this, I, like many others, don't have any answers that will solve your problem, but you shouldn't "have" to let her take your truck to school!! You sound like a nice person but, public transportation is out there for people like her. I can't help but think what i would do in this situation, and i think i would snap. While telling you what i would do probably isn't helpinf you out, just know that i'm oullin for ya and hope you come out of this in the best possible way!!!


jeremy a/k/a fordnbikes

[cntrycowgirl]

wow. I'm really sorry to hear about all of this. Just think that maybe it's better that it happened now and not much later when the child is older and will remember more. I know that we can be heartless bitches at times, but sometimes someone comes along that makes everything ok. Hang in there. Yours will come.

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[Jcmichalik2]

Man that's rough....I'm sorry to hear that....

Like everyone else is saying, DON'T let her walk all over you, and use you...that's one thing I've had to learn the hard way...heck sometimes I find myself still trying to learn....

Sorry that I really don't have much to say to help the situation, but I definately recommend to tell her to @#%# off.

[mattadams]

Smoothy, what do you mean you have no friends. What the hell are we? LOL.
Seriously, beers this weekend? If the biy-otch has the truck I'll give you a ride.

[dannan_w]

i am so sorry. i hope for the best in what ur goin through.

but you do have friends here and many other places.

being a kid who went through a similar thing, always think about the kid.

he/she will be there for at least 18 years she will be gone in about one year.

good luck!! :wink:

[Glass]

Damn guy.....sorry....I dont know what to say, or how to go about it, just do what you think you need to do to get you and your son thru it the best you can. Hope the good turn in this road comes soon for you, you wanna BS, or whatnot, lemme know, im off Wed, and Thursdays...

--John

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[mattadams]

Smoothy, you want it to be boys only or are girls allowed too? Either way. Where do you want to go? I know you are near a Hooters... LOL.
Who else is gonna go?

[rino351]

it's a little illegal for me to go slam a couple in public, but I'll throw a cheers out there for ya!
Hope you get to feeling better, and yes you do have friends

[mattadams]

rino, you can still get into most places, just can't drink. Don't fret, come out with us :).

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[mattadams]

I got loves for you, man. LOL.
I'm up for anything but always up for a trip to the boob store. One of your beers is on me. If more people show up too, maybe they'll buy one of your beers too LOL.

[CNTRYCOWBOY]

If i can make it you got two beers! He's not better than you, he can't be if he was trying to get with a married woman. SCUM BAG in my book

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[Up2myLbowsNmud]

smoothy- I am sorry for all the crap goin on with you! If you can't get your mom to sit, I can do it and not go out with you guys (I am matt's girlfriend if you didnt know) I know we have never met but I have credentials... I know you need a drink or two.

[Snowman]

Smooth....I have been exactly where you are and still fell the pain. And a majority of my stuff with my ex-wife started when we both decided to go back to school. So now when I think of school I just think of a place to lose your woman. Well I have now been divorced since this past Sept. so I know what you are going through because I too have a little 3yr. old girl that was in the middle. Drop me a line if you need a shoulder from someone who has had the exact same thing happen to them.

[UrbanCowboy]

he has agreed to meet me. and i just want to ask what kind of man goes after a married woman?!?!?! but i wont! i just want to see what she left me for!

Good idea. We'll hold em and you beat the snot out of him :twisted:

[CNTRYCOWBOY]

Sweet the first official RMFTC beat down. I got the tire iron, and golf club.

[UrbanCowboy]

Anyone who has t-shirts, make sure to wear them in support of club unity. :wink:

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[mattadams]

For legal purposes, I dont think we can make it a "official beatdown" LOL.
Smoothy and Dom and any others that want to go out this weekend, what times work for you guys?

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[Heath]

Damn it I want to go... To bad I'm broke!!!

[CNTRYCOWBOY]

I have to work all weekend except for sunday, thats my only day off

[mattadams]

I'm free Sunday... and Courtney (up2mylbowsnmud) can babysit if necessary (thanks for the offer, babe!).

[Up2myLbowsNmud]

not a problem if I am needed!

[MMPC]

Just wanted to add my own condolences here - you've been treated beyond horribly! As others have already said, we're here for you...

[UrbanCowboy]

I'm free Sunday. I get off work at 5pm in Boulder. Friday/Saturday are still looking okay, but I can't guarantee anything. Long story. It was my idea so I'll make it if there is anyway I can. Right now signs point to I'll me there whevever.

[UrbanCowboy]

Okay. Saturday is available. Friday, I could do but would prefer not to. Of course anything I say has to be approved by the Misses. Worse case scenario, I have to bring her along.

[cory]

what ever you do end it now before you really get hurt, because if she's
acting like your marrage is a joke there's no reason to continue. im married now for 16 years and we have been a couple for 19 and she knows and i do, that trust has got to be everything. take your kid your truck give her the single finger salute and move on. i hope im not being too cold about this topic but it's the truth.

[UrbanCowboy]

One more thing from me. I lost my license last week and currently I just have the temporary paper license from the DMV. It has no photo on it. Does anyone know if a bar will accept this???

[cntrycowgirl]

i know if you have a passport, they'll accept that... or if you have your paper dl and another form of picture id they should accept it.

[UrbanCowboy]

I got my pasport but it was issued when I was in middle school and expired in 96 :) I got my birth certificate too. hehe.

[cntrycowgirl]

hm... sounds like you're out of luck, lol

[dannan_w]

i would like to come to ur "party' but i just turned 18.

I have more than a batt to beat him with, lets do a 10 ga.

[mattadams]

Dannan, if we're going to Hooters, you don't have to be 21. And besides you wouldn't come anyways, LOL.

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[CNTRYCOWBOY]

Urban if you take that paper and have a credit card or something with your name on it you could probably get away with it.

[Mind_Boggler]

ok, if it's on a Sun. late afternoon or early evening, I can prob. make it, now that I gots my truck up and running again :D . Also, Dannan, or anyone else from the Springs area, I can put 2 people in my truck, so I'll be happy to bring a couple with me.

[Mind_Boggler]

Also, I'm newly single, lol, so Smoothy and I can have a couple o beers and look for women. Maybe there are still some decent ones left in Denver. I've given up hope of finding any down here.

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[cntrycowgirl]

Sounds like this is an all male, female bashing experience, so you guys have fun. if you end up needing d&d's, let me know.

[mattadams]

Well, I'm game for Sunday, sounds like more people can make it Sunday. Probably Sunday night so U.C. can make it.

[UrbanCowboy]

Sunday is fine, so is Sat. Anyway, when and where?

[smoothengagement]

allright sunday! when and where?

[mattadams]

OK lets say around 6ish, At the Hooters on Colorado Blvd. Whatcha think.

[UrbanCowboy]

What about the one at 6th and Kipling? How far is that from you guys? I know it's a bit closer for Me and Dom if he is coming? Of course it if it's a lot further for you, that doesn't improve things either. Just a thought.....

[mattadams]

They are about equal distance for me, I'm fine with either. I know the one on Colorado is a lot closer to Smoothy.

[smoothengagement]

yeah the colorado one is much closer to me, but its up t ya'll's

[mattadams]

Damn Smoothy, stick up for yourself :). Am I giving you a ride or are you taking your truck? If I'm giving you a ride you may have to ride in the Buick, truck might still be in the shop at that time.

[UrbanCowboy]

That's it. I'm not coming to the Colorado location until Smoothy takes a stand. Oh, and I'm brining the car as well. Too far for the truck.

[mattadams]

:rofl:
I figured since its Smoothies party it should be near him... but I'm fine with whatever :).

[UrbanCowboy]

:drunken: :beer: :occasion9:

[smoothengagement]

i cant see why i cant drive my truck, inless the onforsealbe (cant spell!) occours! FINE! can it be at the colorado one? J/K

[Mind_Boggler]

OK, Colorado Ave. it is, now how the hell do I get there!?! lol

(Sheesh, at least I know where Kipling is! haha)

[UrbanCowboy]

i cant see why i cant drive my truck, inless the onforsealbe (cant spell!) occours! FINE! can it be at the colorado one? J/K
You can't drive your truck. You're getting a ride if I have to pick you up myself. Of course then you'd be late cause I'm going to be late coming from Boulder. Like 6:15 I suppose

[smoothengagement]

where you coming from? you exit i25 at colorado and head north on colorado a couple blocks. its on the right side (east) and it says HOOTERS on the building!

[smoothengagement]

im confused?

[Mind_Boggler]

Sorry, smoothy, lol. As a general rule, I avoid Denver like the plague. But I'll make an exception for club meets. Besides, I like wings! (Ummm, wings, why else would one go to Hooters?? I swear! That's the only reason I'd ever go! lol)

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[CNTRYCOWBOY]

Urban do you want to car pool down there. Let me know if you do, I'll drive, you can just meet me at my aptartment.

[UrbanCowboy]

Don't sweat it Smoothy. That's what's great about a club like this. We all have something in common. I've only attended three events but I like to consider these guys friends.

Dom -

I'd definately consider car pooling but I was going to be running late. I won't make it out to Westminster until like 5:40ish. Nonetheless, if you don't mind being a tad late...... Let me know.

Anyway, back to the garage with me, I'l check online later.

[CNTRYCOWBOY]

Terry,

That will work for me. Give me a call when your leaving and I'll give you directions (720) 252-6703

[UrbanCowboy]

Alright. Will do.

[fordnbikes]

I wish i would have been able to come, stupid work people!! I guess there are these things called "vacation"? i never get one but my boss takes like 6 or 7 a year!! Anyways, have a good time boobie watchin at hooters!

[UrbanCowboy]

He said boobie. ;)

[smoothengagement]

thats cool work sucks!

[CNTRYCOWBOY]

Terry give me a call when your leaving, I'm heading to the car wash, I'll have my phone on me. Just so you know what direction to head I live at I-25 and 120th ave.

[UrbanCowboy]

Hey Dom -

Can you check to see if I left the RMFTC sticker in your truck? I just remembered it right now at work. I might have it at home, I haven't looked. Just thought I'd ask. I don't remember what I did with it, I bet it's in my truck....

[mattadams]

Lol... good thing you didn't end up at Shotguns... that sticker would've ende dup in some girls g-string... LOL.

[fordnbikes]

HEY thats not funny, i paid for that sticker and if i did get into someones g-string, i would have wanted to at least be there LOL!!

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[LEANINTREE]

SHE'S MOVING IN W/ HIM WHILE YOU'RE STILL HITCHED? WOW... THAT'S GROUNDS FOR A NO-CONTEST DIVORCE. PROVEN INFIDELITY IS *STILL* ILLEAGAL IN COLORAD AS I RECALL.

LEANINTREE

[JuBean]

take your kid your truck give her the single finger salute and move on. i hope im not being too cold about this topic but it's the truth.Damn straight.
I know I am getting in on this late but bud if she still has your truck tell her it has to be back by the end of the day or the Police get a stolen vehicle report. Get everything that is yours and quit giving her the time of day. You wil not help yourself being nice since it apears she wont play fair.

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[Glass]

After you get your truck back from her for the last time, search it top to bottom, and dont overlook anything. Look for anything illeagle that could convienently have been placed there to make you look bad "should" the cops ever get an "anonymous" tip something might be in there. Its amazing the things will do to make either themselves look better compared to a person, or to just make another person look bad.I have Wednesdays and Thursdays off, lemme know if you ever wanna go looking for women to hang out with, or just chill...

--John

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[Glass]

Just let me know when...this friday is a payday, so im runnin low on cash till then, but ill be covered money wise for my days off...lemme know what your thinking, ,and weel chill one of them days..

--John